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    Obsessed Carrie Fan undrwood9098's Avatar
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    2 Years of My Life Are Gone

    I drove into town today because I wanted to surprise my girlfriend of 2 years. I walked to her house tonight to see her kissing another guy on her front porch.

    I exchanged words (far too profane to post on here), she told me what's been happening every week while I'm out of town for a few days, and it turns out that while I've been at work every week, she's been cheating on me for the past year. I broke up with her on the spot, right then and there.

    I walked off and back to my apartment bawling my eyes out. I was expecting to marry her since I was with her for so long. I can't even believe this.

    I need help. I need closure. I'm playing depressing Carrie songs and Adele albums all night while I sob in bed. I don't know what to do.

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    Insane Carrie Fan carebear4eva's Avatar
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    I am so, so sorry to read this. I've never been in such a situation, so I really dunno what to say.

    Maybe you could "dig your key into the side of her 4wd"?

    Lol, just trying to cheer you up.

    Sorry again

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    Obsessed Carrie Fan undrwood9098's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by carebear4eva View Post
    Maybe you could "dig your key into the side of her 4wd"?
    That actually made me chuckle. Thanks.

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    Sorry about this but you just have to move on in your like and learn from this incident.

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    I am so so sorry for you. I think we have all been there...and it really sucks. All I can say is you will find someone more worthy of you. She wasn't "the one." Hang in there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by undrwood9098 View Post
    That actually made me chuckle. Thanks.
    Lol, you're totally welcome! Glad it worked

    I echo what Tee and robinanhunt said...."IT GETS BETTER".

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    I'm sorry that your relationshipp didn't work out all you can do is move on put everthing in god hand and move on with your like. If you do that. God will bless you with a better relationship and a happier life i promise. Just put in God's hands. He loves all of his children.

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    I'm so sorry to hear that. If your girlfriend was willing to do that after two years of a relationship, she's not worth it. Doesn't deserve someone who cares about being in a faithful relationship.

    You'll find someone who'll treat you right and care about you as much as you do her. Hang in there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Carrieflattsfan View Post

    I'm so sorry to hear that. If your girlfriend was willing to do that after two years of a relationship, she's not worth it. Doesn't deserve someone who cares about being in a faithful relationship.

    You'll find someone who'll treat you right and care about you as much as you do her. Hang in there.
    The bolded - 'nough said.

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    Thank you all so much. The Carrie fans always cheer me up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by teesharky View Post
    I am so so sorry for you. I think we have all been there...and it really sucks. All I can say is you will find someone more worthy of you. She wasn't "the one." Hang in there.
    I absolutely agree! If she cheated on you, then she isn't worth your time. I am sorry this has happened to you. You seem like a great guy and you will find someone even better! Don't waste any tears on her; this happens all over the world to people every day, unfortunately, and they move on soon.

    Great Carrie songs for this would be Undo It, Before (She) Cheats (LOL!), Starts With Goodbye, Wasted, So Small, I Know You Won't, You Won't Find This, What Can I Say, PLAY ON!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by carriefann View Post
    I absolutely .....on soon.

    Great Carrie songs for this would be Undo It, Before (She) Cheats (LOL!), Starts With Goodbye, Wasted, So Small, I Know You Won't, You Won't Find This, What Can I Say, PLAY ON!!
    Wow! I didn't realize all the carrie songs that apply to this situation.

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    Better yet, mix some Miranda into your revenge plan.







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    Actually, Guns N' Roses's "Used To Love Her" and "Back Off, B!tch" work, too. xD

    Alternately, you can go for a legitimately sadder song you could relate to ("Estranged"), but if I were you, I'd rather hear a lyric like, "I used to love her, but then I had to kill her." But that's just me.(x

    You ought to be happy. It's great cutting unethical people out of your life. You widdle it down to the people that are worth it.<3

    But yeah. Pain comes before pleasure. And I'm not just talking about sex.

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    And one way to think about it also, is that it isn't a total waste of two years. I'm sure you learned a lot from the relationship, both good and bad. Hang in there!

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    Sorry to hear this happened. I agree with what everyone else has said; you'll find that "perfect" someone, eventually. My boyfriend of two months and I broke up this month (July), alas. It hurts, I know, but it's always best to move on. (:

    "Stop worrying where you're going.... Move on."

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    Sorry to hear that. must hurt really bad. I hope you feel better.

    PLAY ON!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Carrieflattsfan View Post
    Better yet, mix some Miranda into your revenge plan.







    Add "FORGET YOU" - Cee Lo Green to this great mix

    keep being who you are and don't be afraid to open up in the future. there will be better days, I promise!

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    You can think of it this way. Although it hurts like hell right now at least you found out now before you got married to her.

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    LMAO! I'll go burning her bed down with the other guy. Thank goodness we have Miranda revenge songs.

    Thank you all so much.


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